Boundaries on dating
At the time, I could not (correction: would not) allow myself to admit that I was angry with my mother.
These people create a sense of over-entitlement, over-protection and inflated self esteem in their children. PLEASERS~ Some people focus so much on pleasing others that they don’t focus on taking care of themselves.
There are three types of people who particularly need boundaries. DOORMATS~Some people have been raised to believe that martyrdom, self-denial and incessant caretaking are righteous virtues to be practiced to the point of misery.
When people are doormats, they allow others to take advantage of them. ENABLERS~Then there are parents who want to make sure their children have everything they didn’t get, and they protected them from every problem and emotion.
When a man is interested, you are in no doubt about their interest and they don’t run the risk of losing you.
You have to stop acting like every guy could be the one and like there’s a fire – there isn’t.